Thursday, December 30, 2010

2010 Song of the Year

“Wake Up” by Arcade Fire. If you saw the preview for “Where the Wild Things Are” you’re familiar with this song. I’d like to share the lyrics with you because they’re powerful poetry:
“Children wake up,
Hold your mistake up,
Before they turn the summer into dust.
If the children don't grow up,
Our bodies get bigger
But our hearts get torn up.
We're just a million little gods causin' rain storms
Turnin' every good thing to rust.
I guess we'll just have to adjust.”

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Reviving Jump Little Children

One of the best parts of living in Athens (as any former or current resident knows) is the unparalleled music scene. There are few places in America where on a given night a person can see such a bevy of talent.

Tons of artists got their start in this Southern college town: R.E.M, The B-52s, The Whigs, Modern Skirts, John Mayer (his first major video "No Such Thing" was filmed at the Athens Theatre), and Jump Little Children.

My top 10 favorite bands I saw perform in Athens were:

10) TV on the Radio
9) Drive By Truckers 
8) Coolio (he was wated at a PKA party)
7) The Whigs
6) Dean Dollar
5) Alison Weiss (okay, so she's not famous...yet)
4) Sister Hazel
3) Modern Skirts
2) Better Than Ezra (Angie Aparo opened)

Undoubtedly, Number One was the final concert Jump performed at the Athens Theatre before the band called it quits in 2006.

After listening to Jump's radio station on Pandora today, it became clear there really is no band one can compare to Jump, Little Children. The other artists Pandora summoned included Better Than Ezra, Matt Nathansom, John Mayer, Jason Mraz and (much to my surprise) The Beatles. Seriously? The Beatles? Granted the influences are similar (use of strings, meaningful melodic lyrics, etc.) but one wouldn't initially think to place Jump, Little Children in the same musical hierarchy as The Beatles.

Though they should.

Jump's demise can be attributed to the fact they were just too damn good for the masses. This band of rogues was ahead of their time. Or maybe belonged somewhere in history with The Beatles. Regardless, Jump's music is timeless. Listening to the more poppy "Magazine" compared to the later "Mexico" then my all time favorite love song "Cathedrals" one can hear how the band was able to move effortlessly between styles and sounds.

Goodness we miss them.

It's sad to know Jump won't be making collective ballads anymore. After missing them for four years, their fans are sincerely hoping for a reunion tour.

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Kate & Will - A Historical Romance

Readers, I had the weirdest dream on Sunday night. I dreamed I was invited to Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding. It was one of the most visceral dreams I've ever had, and when I woke up on Monday I spent a few hours writing down what I could remember.

On the advice of my handsome husband I'm going to turn my wild dream into a historical romance. The story follows our heroine, Cameron, as she arrives for Kate & Will's wedding. Cameron and Will met at a pub in London one summer when some of Will's friends attempted to hit on her friends. Cameron had a boyfriend at the time (now her husband) and Will had a girlfriend (who we later find out is Kate).

Will and Cameron stay in touch as pen pals. They discover they are able to confide each other because they both lost a parent at a young age. Cameron's father was a senator who died of a heart attack. Her mother (Jackie) quickly remarried then Husband  No. 2 died merely months later. While her mother retreated to Manhattan to immerse herself in work it left Cameron alone to essentially raise herself.

When Cameron meets Will for the first time, she pretends not to recognize him in hopes of getting to know him better. Secretly she had always identified with him and over pints of beer Will and Cameron quickly establish a friendship.

The story begins with Cameron as she arrives for Will and Kate's wedding. I'm still working on the introduction, and the reunion scene with Cameron and William, plus when Cameron gets to meet Kate Middleton.

One of the most vivid parts of my dream was when the heroine met another wedding guest, Barbara de Tocqueville -- I kid you not, this was the young lady's name in my dream. This is what I get for drinking wine at MaryAnn's birthday party, followed by a Double Quarter Pounder with cheese.

After Cameron's terse encounter with de Tocqueville she runs into the same group of Will's friends who had hit on her friends during study abroad. This was another insane part of my dream that I could see so clearly: the luxrious hallway of the home the wedding guests were staying at, what all the guys were wearing, etc. Seriously I need to eat McDonald's before bed more often.

Here is the scene with Cameron and Miss de Tocqueville as they prepare for the first night of wedding festivities, followed by Cameron's run-in with Will's friends. Please let me know your thoughts, edits and suggestions for moving forward with the story!

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Cameron could feel the Girl-in-Green’s eyes examining her. Cameron looked at her in the mirror and caught the girl’s gaze. She had brown hair, pulled neatly back into a bun, adorned with sparkling diamonds resembling stars. Her deep green cocktail dress was cut across her chest revealing her attractive collar bone. The emerald fabric flowed down to her calves. On her feet were the most adorable silver peeky-toe heels.
“You’re not wearing that out are you?” the Girl-in-Green asked raising an eyebrow.

“Oh heavens no,” Cameron said brushing out her curls. “It’s just my getting ready frock since I can take it off without messing up my hair.”
“Clever,” the Girl-in-Green replied. “Are you going to be ready in time?”
“Goodness I have to be,” she said. “It’s been a busy day since our flight landed here this afternoon.”
“Where did you come from?” The girl in green asked intently watching Cameron in the mirror.
“Washington D.C. My mother took the train in from New York yesterday afternoon, we took the red eye from D.C. to Heathrow and it took forever to get through the increased security with the wedding.”
“It’s nice to hear Parliament actually authorized increased security at the airports,” Barbara said. “We’ve all been on edge about the threat of a terrorist attack on such a happy occasion.” She still continued to look peculiarly at Cameron.
“Yes, we’re all hoping for the best,” Cameron said applying her mascara.
“I’m Barbara de Tocqueville,” the Girl-in-Green said “Our family is good friends with the Middletons. And you are?”
“Cameron Keener, or, Frasier. I just got married last month.” Barbara’s eyes immediately landed on Cameron’s diamond ring. Her brown eyes widened at the sight of the stone.
“Congratulations,” she replied coldly, trying to hide her amazement. “How do you know Kate and Will?”
“Will and I met one summer when I was studying abroad. We kept in touch through the years, and I invited him to my wedding but he couldn’t make it. When he invited me to it happened to be at the right time. I’m here with my mother since my husband couldn’t make it.”
“What would be so important your husband couldn’t attend the marriage of the 21st century?”
“It's his work. He just didn’t want to be overseas during the initial launch phases.”
“And some job is more important than the marriage of the prince of England?” Barbara asked drumming her nails on the counter.
“To him,” Cameron said with a smile.
“Well, I better be off, I don’t want to miss the car,” Barbara announced turning on her heel. “It was a pleasure to meet you, Cameron. I look forward to getting to know you better in the coming days.”
“You as well, Miss de Tocqueville.”
With that, Barbara exited the ladies lounge. Cameron gave herself another once over in the mirror, content with the results. She darted out of the lounge and started to briskly walk down the corridor. 
Cameron rounded the corner and bumped into a group of young men. There were at least eight guys, all laughing in sport coats and suits. She realized it’s a group of William’s friends, leaving the house for the nearby pub Will had mentioned.
She recognized one from the pack almost immediately. He was a handsome young man with dark brown hair. His curly hair flopped down around his ears. A scruffy beard formed around his chin then swooped up his jaw line to a pair of light blue eyes. His blue eyes matched the light blue linen shirt under his blue blazer.
“Whoa, madam.” One of the guys from the pack shouted. “No running in the halls.” The rest of the guys laughed. Curly Brown Hair and Blue Eyes started to chuckle as well.
Then his eyes searched Cameron’s for a second. He gasped. “Cameron Keener!”
“Hello, Maximillian,” she replied breaking into a grin.
“My God it’s good to see you,” he shouted. “Charlie, Phillip, come here. It’s Cameron from America.”
Two men emerged next to Cameron. There was Charlie, looking much more sober since the last time she’d seen him. His honey color hair was spiked with gel, his brown eyes shining. Charlie didn’t have quite as many freckles as he did that summer but he still had that same mischievous look about him. Phillip was clearly intoxicated. His black hair fell loosely across his face and his brown eyes couldn’t quite focus on her.
“Cameron,” Charlie cried pulling her into a hug. “Bloody good to see you, girl. Didn’t I see on Facebook that you got married?”
“Correct, Charlie, it’s great to see you too. And Facebook also told me you’re in a relationship.”
“Indeed I am. You’ll meet her soon if you haven’t already," he beamed.
“Meet us later,” Maximillian chimed. “Will probably told you we’ll be at the Rose and Crown this evening, right?”
“He did.”
“Where are you going?” Phillip finally spoke, moreover slurred.
“My mother has friends to meet for dinner. Some old professors of hers live in London and she wants to introduce me to them.”
“Sounds dreadful,” Phillip slurred.
“Meet us later, okay?” Charlie pressed.
“I shall try.” Cameron said, side stepping the crew. And she took off walking at a quick pace down the hall.
“Have fun Cameron Keener,” Maximillian shouted. The pack of guys laughed and their echo rang down the hall. Cameron flew into her room where Jackie was waiting.
“Took you long enough,” her mother quipped. “We’re going to be late for our reservation.”
“I’m sorry Mom, but I bumped into Will’s friends.”
“The ones who Jessica and Katy hooked up with?”
“The very same.”
“Oh, goodness, that must have been interesting,” Jackie said handing Cameron her dress. “Please put this on darling, we really have to go.”
“Jeesh, okay.” Cameron replied unbuttoning her dress.

That's it for now. Thoughts?

Monday, December 20, 2010

The Shining STARs

   To begin, this post is dedicated to our STAR coach: Chase Crowson. I’ve personally let Chase down by biting off more than I can chew this holiday season. Chase emphasized the importance of good time management and I’ve totally blown it in December.
   For the better part of 2010, Mr. Crowson dedicated himself to “kicking our collective butts” as fellow STAR Jon Acuff wrote. I wish I could have seen Chase yesterday so he could have given me a swift kick. It seems as if I’m poorly clinging on to all the great lessons Chase bestowed upon us in STAR.
   I've thought about writing this blog post for awhile. It’s been on the to-do list since I launched this site a few weeks ago. There’s been a lot of things that I claim have prevented me from actually publishing it; the truth is, I was scared to write it because I didn’t think it would do STAR the brilliant justice it deserved.
   In STAR we were taught by Chase to focus on our strengths instead of our weaknesses. Our main tool was this powerful book “Strengths Finder 2.0”. Available here on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/StrengthsFinder-2-0-Tom-Rath/dp/159562015X
If you need a good, last minute holiday gift I highly recommend this book. It’s by a clever chap named Tom Rath. In his book, Mr. Rath describes the unique power of 34 “Themes” he and his research team identified as common areas for strength.
   More often than not society chooses to focus on the negative aspects instead of the positive ones. This mentality trickles down through the mass media into every aspect of our lives: work, home, etc. It’s often challenging nay downright tough to remember all of our positive strengths on a daily basis.
   For Chase, that’s what this blog post is about. It’s a public appreciation for Chase Crowson and the strengths he taught us in STAR. We discovered these strengths at the beginning of 2010. As the end of this year draws near I’d like to review the strengths of my fellow STARs. Another amazing thing: anytime someone will go to keyword a STAR’s name in Google, all of their amazing strengths will appear in the search results.
   The following list of strengths appears exactly how Chase handed them to us in February 2010.
Jon Acuff: Activator, Communication, Empathy, Ideation, and Strategic. Jon mastered the power of his strengths early on in the STAR program. So much that he actually got his dream job and left the company. Jon’s strengths pair perfectly together on his blog www.stuffchristianslike.net. Jon has figured out a way to achieve personal satisfaction plus support his adorable wife and two daughters simply writing about his passion. Granted Jon’s faith had the majority of the part to launch this STAR into his dream job but I’d also like to think that Chase’s commitment to showing Jon the power of his strengths also played a part. Jon published his first book last year, Stuff Christians Like (available here  http://www.amazon.com/Stuff-Christians-Like-Jonathan-Acuff/dp/0310319943)
Jon now works for Dave Ramsey and has more than 1 million readers of his blog.  He’s even got a second book on the way. For the record, Jon Acuff is one of my heroes.
Lissette Arenas: Achiever, Command, Competition, Intellection, and Strategic. Like Chase, Lissie also has this amazing dedication to making us all better people. It’s easy because Lissie is fabulous in every way. She’s fiercely competitive but for all the right reasons. Lissie loves people more passionately and intensely than any other person I’ve ever met in a leadership program. Lissie was a huge contributor to making our STAR team grow a tighter bond than any other year of the program. If something wasn’t right then Lissie would be the first one to let us know so we could fix it and make it better. She’s also a fabulous dresser with a kind heart who can speak fluent Spanish, English and a good portion of Italian.
Clifton Hall: Achiever, Arranger, Positivity, Relator and Responsibility. Hey, Tom Rath, founder of Strengths Finder! Have you met the next you? His name is Clifton. He lives here in Atlanta and Clifton believes more powerfully in his amazing strengths than maybe even you, sir. Clifton and I met on the very first day of STAR when we were seated next to each other at the Georgian Terrace. His smile was one of the biggest, most genuine smiles I’ve been privileged to see. Clifton and I bonded over his Positivity strengths; however, Chase and Clifton’s strengths must have really connected because of Chase’s Belief and Clifton’s Relator. Clifton has such an incredible future in front of him because of his great attitude.
Side note: by the way, Tom Rath. Did you know that Relator isn’t even in the dictionary? I just had to add it in Microsoft Word. How dare Bill Gates not have all of Strengths Finder included in his word bank! I digress…back to Strengths.
LaVonne Owens: Connectedness, Developer, Empathy, Harmony, and Restorative. LaVonne is an angel. She’s is possibly one of the sweetest, most genuine people I’ve ever met in my entire life. LaVonne is right up there with Chase. To summarize LaVonne’s amazing strengths, she can take everything that’s good in a person, sprinkle pixie dust on that soul, and turn someone into a more amazing version 2.0. LaVonne and I formed an amazing bond at Cheers in Boston: painfully crooning to “Ebony and Ivory.” The one thing she couldn’t fix was my singing but Miss Owens made me a better person over the past year.  LaVonne has an extremely bright future ahead of her because of her unique power to improve. She and Chase are similar in that regard, which is probably why they work for the same team.
 Shamanda Smith: Achiever, Arranger, Input, Learner, Strategic. Shamanda made one of the most terrific transformations in 2010. This woman is wonderful. Shamanda is so keenly smart, incredibly proficient, plus she has impeccable taste. Shamanda’s classy style resonates from the work she does each day for our company all the way through every part of her being. I recently read a great quote about style that reminded me of Shamanda: “Style is a function of a theme. Style is not imposed on the subject matter but arises from it. Style is truth to thought.” Style = Shamanda. This daring woman is dedicated, determined and gorgeous. Shamanda’s strengths all come together to make her a very clever and cunning chick. Plus she designs her own jewelry as a hobby. Her other hobbies include kicking ass, critical thinking, public speaking, being fantastic and breathing excellence each and every day. 
Valerie Dawson: Context, Empathy, Positivity, Relator and Responsibility. Valerie inspires me for her unique capability to see life exactly how it is. Valerie doesn’t romanticize or placate, neither demeans nor degrades: she’s able to sit with another person and understand them for exactly who they are. Early on when getting to know this inspiring woman, one comes to understand Valerie’s real power lies in her ability to communicate without saying a single word. Her energy and facial expressions are where Valerie’s real power exists. Valerie just gets a person for who they’ve grown into instead of what they aren’t. Her strengths then allow a person to understand his or her potential. Valerie and Chase have that in common.
Chase reminded us the importance of learning all our STAR team’s Strengths. It made us work better if we can not only leverage our Strengths but also those of our teammates. We forget that we play on many teams each day: teams at work, our family as a team then friends as another. We must always remember to see the best in all our teammates. Going back to the STARs…
Leesa Grant: Communication, Connectedness, Empathy, Positivity and Woo. For those unfamiliar with Strengths Finder, “Woo” is really an acronym for Winning Others Over. More importantly it characterizes exceptional people who feel a need to connect with an individual on a personal level in order to really make this world a better place. If more folks can master the power of Woo like Leesa did then we’d get closer to world peace. Leesa is such an exceptional person. This woman has also become the source for a “spiritual vitamin” email I receive each day. One email said we often put things in the depreciation room of our minds instead of the appreciation room. Chase was an incredible teacher because his instruction turned Leesa into a true leader within our STAR team and then onto our company.
Tega McKinney: Achiever, Arranger, Futuristic, Relator and Responsibility. Tega is the Future CEO of Whatever-Company-Tega-Chooses-to-Master. His unique strengths make him a force to be reckoned with. In his cool, collected demeanor Tega is really arranging for his future success. He’s on the way to climbing mountains of great heights by taking on new initiatives in his life and within our organization. One of the main reasons I want to stay so close with my STARs, especially Chase, is so in 30 years we can all sit back with our copy of The Wall Street Journal (because yes, I do believe we’ll still have printed newspapers in 30 years) and the STARs will see Tega’s beaming face on the front page of the newspaper with a headline proclaiming his business achievements.
Yesica Tamariz-Clemente: Achiever, Arranger, Focus, Learner and Responsibility. Yesica really can have it all. This was a year full of achievements for this amazingly accomplished woman. Yesica graduated STAR, transitioned to an exciting new marketing role, and she graduated from Georgia Tech with her MBA. Yesica’s strengths truly blend to create an amazing energy that can move and shape our industry. All the STARs should continue to work as a team, because if Tega is the CEO, then Yesica will be working with him on an executive level. She also has mastered both Spanish and English plus seen more of the world than one can hope to in a lifetime. It’s uncommon to find someone, like Yesica, who focuses so intently on achieving their dreams. Chase’s coaching helped Yesica along the way this year.
Tammy Thomas: Achiever, Empathy, Futuristic, Relator, Responsibility. Tammy really is developer. Deep down she understands who a person is then really see into the future for developing ideas for how that person can achieve their dreams. It’s easy to see just from being with Tammy for a minute what an amazing mother she must be. Then she brings that powerful energy to her team. She’s one of the kindest people I’ve ever met. If we were creating team World Peace, Tammy should be the Project Manager because she would achieve World Peace.
Claire Dotson: Achiever, Consistency, Discipline, Harmony and Responsibility. There’s a saying our STAR team created this year – W.W.C.D. – What Would Claire Do? This young woman is thoroughly committed to achieving greatness by doing so in a balanced, harmonious, responsible yet delightfully playful manner. Upon meeting Claire one would think she’s a hard-core captain of industry. In reality she is one of the most modest, compassionate and intelligent people I’ve ever met. Most importantly (and this should be a Strength, Tom Rath) Claire is deliberate. Ever action is well-thought, decisive and with the best intentions. Claire inspires everyone, and Chase’s faith in her was crucial to this inspiration.
Nakia Lumpkin: Developer, Empathy, Individualization, Relator and Strategic. You know the cartoons with an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other? Nakia is both, but ultimately she’s the brain in the middle which really knows the best course of action. Nakia is so bright. She can work with anyone to understand the needs of a team member then satisfy them so as a team they can strategically achieve their goals. Plus she does so in a well-dressed, well-spoken, well-shoed manner. Her style is incomparable in the best fashion. Nakia learned how to command a room this year directly from Chase and his coaching.
Rick Manning: Command, Communication, Input, Learner and Self-Assurance. Back to the Tega-Yessica-Ruling-Corporate-America-Company, Rick would be the guy in charge of sales and marketing. Rick is incredibly creative. Most importantly he can communicate his vision in such a unique style it makes him a very accomplished leader. Rick shared everyone a powerful gift with everyone in STAR this year: self-confidence. One day a movie will be written about Rick Manning’s existence. It will be called something along the lines of “The Cunning Life of Mr. Manning” or “Mr. Manning’s Marvelous Machinations”. It would have been a privilege to watch a video of a Rick and Chase coaching session.
Wilmer Wade: Achiever, Arranger, Connectedness, Positivity and Relator. Wade has a very rare characteristic in a career-driven society: chivalry. Wade brings grace and manners to work every day. Most people are worried about their lunch, laptops, and other items. Wade concerns himself with diplomacy, pleasantry and the finer things one likes to be graced with by a team mate. Wade always has a smile on his face, even in the hard times, and he can relate with each individual in such a manner that they can work together to overcome all obstacles. Chase and Wade share an important theme in their strengths: connectedness – the belief that all things happen for a reason which implies individual responsibility. Chase and Wade both believe in the grand scheme of all things being connected.   
Before moving onto to discussing Chase’s strengths we have to review myself in February 2010.
Lauren Morgan: Input, Positivity, Achiever, Learner and Maximizer. Acronym: I-PALM. Let’s talk about the great things Chase did for Lauren Morgan and how he turned her into me, Lauren Patrick. Chase helped me understand everything good within myself. Instead of focusing on what I’m not, Chase taught me to focus on who I am and how to become my best me. Chase is the Buddha of self-development.
And to close with as much deserving respect…
Chase Crowson: Belief, Connectedness, Individualization, Responsibility and Strategic. Chase reminds us every day that nothing other people say and do is because of you. It’s a projection of one’s own reality and own dreams. When you are immune to the actions and opinions of others you can achieve your dreams. This idea is a principle tenant of achieving a life of peace. 2010 was a hard year for everyone because of all sorts of outside factors of which we predominantly have no control. We can do our best to stimulate the economy, attain financial stability while maintaining a “normal” existence. But at the end of the day, all we can really control is how we react to the forces of which we have no control. Focus, believe in one’s own power, and then using it responsibly to help the Soul of the World. Chase is such a rare breed of human. He shows us how people can really are inherently good.
   For Chase: in hopes of making the last of this tough year a little bit brighter. You took 15 ordinary people in 2010 and transformed their lives. You took us on an amazing journey of self discovery which included the Four Seasons, an amazing time in Boston, and back to Atlanta where we realized our true potential.
   Chase, you made us extraordinary people in 2010. Now that we don’t see you once a week, we’re back to being ordinary. Hopefully we can carry our own in 2011.
   Sorry if we ever let you down, Chase. Thank you for an amazing year.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Office Space

The company I work for just moved into a swanky new office. I love that I sit next to a window now but can't stand the open the floor plan. Our new cubes have glass walls so my peripheral vision is constantly plagued with activity going on around me and this makes it hard to focus.

So today I made the executive decision to plaster more than 50 photos on the glass side of my cube. This way I only have three options to look at:

1) My work
2) The gorgeous Atlanta skyline
3) Photos of my loved ones

It's made today a lot easier to work through. Hope you had a great day!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Benefitting The Red & Black

The past few weeks have been a trying time for The Red & Black. After the resignation of its Editor in Chief then yesterday’s cancellation of renowned Taco Stand night, it appears our beloved newspaper needs a little positive uplift.
I think I have an idea. What if we hosted the first-ever Red & Black benefit gala?
Here’s what I’m thinking. In spring of 2011, after midterms and before The Red & Black banquet, we put on an event in Athens. All proceeds will benefit The Red & Black. The funds raised from the benefit could be used to upgrade technology (cameras, computers, hell maybe even iPads) whatever Harry sees fit to spend the money on.
After spending a few years in the Atlanta social scene one thing I’ve learned is nothing brings people closer together than attending an awesome party for a great cause. I can’t imagine a more worthy cause than the amazing newspaper we were privileged to work for and investing in resources for The Red & Black’s current and future student staffers.
This event would be open to any person who wants to support The Red & Black: former staffers (from every department), UGA faculty and staff, or any Bulldog alumni who wants to attend a fabulous event in Athens to support The Red & Black.
What do we need to do?
-          Decide on a date. I’m thinking a Saturday night would work best to allow everyone to come into town and not have to miss work. Perhaps a Saturday in late March or early April?

-          Choose a place. Personally, I’m over going to events at The Classic Center because the food is awful and my vodka-soda is never as strong as I need it to be. Maybe we could rent out East West Bistro or Basil Press. There’s also the historic Hardeman House on Milledge Avenue. Any other ideas?

-          Determine a price point that covers the overhead for the event (with really great food and open bar) which allows the maximum dollar amount to be given back to The Red & Black. Would $75 per person be reasonable?

-          Attire: how does cocktail or formal business appeal to everyone? Would we want to upgrade and make it black tie? We never had an opportunity in college for everyone at The Red & Black to really dress up.  Thoughts?

-          Reserve a block of hotel rooms for those coming in from outside Athens (because hell no I’m not driving home after this party!)

-          Design a marketing campaign to promote interest in attending the first ever benefit for The Red & Black. I’m not savvy in graphic design so would someone be willing to work on this project? All materials would be owned by that person and could be used for their portfolio. Maybe we could even work with the Grady College to distribute the campaign to its alumni database?

After reading through everything, would you please give this idea some thought and let me know your 5 W’s and an H for a potential benefit for The Red & Black?
When would work best for you?
Where would you like to have the event?
What would you like to wear?
Who do you think should be invited to attend?
Why would you want to attend a benefit for The Red & Black?
How would you like to be involved in this event (event planning, marketing, etc.)?

Thank you so much for reading this post. Together we can make it come to fruition and bring some positivity (and a little extra cash) to The Red & Black. I look forward to hearing everyone's ideas.


Tuesday, December 7, 2010

The Tragic Demise of Taco Stand Night

As most of you dear readers know, the better part of my four years at UGA was spent working at The Red & Black. This honorable publication is consistently named one of the top 10 college newspapers in the country. Serving as Editor in Chief my final semester was an absolute dream.

Every term would wrap up with a final edition of the newspaper published on “Reading Day”: a day given to students, free of classes, allowing them to prepare for finals. Most students spent the day nursing hangovers and some would just keep the party going if they weren’t concerned about finals.

The Red & Black staff would always go downtown after putting the final paper of the semester to bed the night before Reading Day. Tradition mandated we always frequent the same place: Taco Stand.

Unfortunately this year the festivities at Taco Stand were cancelled due to fear that someone would be lurking around Taco Stand waiting to bust the underage Red & Black staff members who might partake of an adult beverage.

Personally I don’t agree with the decision to nix the long-standing tradition, but as I’m helpless to aid the situation all I can do is remember the fond memories…or at least look at photos because after several rounds of beers and strawberry margaritas the night tended to get a little fuzzy.

My dear friend, Ed Morales, who serves as The Red & Black Editorial Advisor, penned an exquisite obituary memorializing this long standing tradition.

Here it is for your remembrance:

Taco Stand, a venerable institution which celebrated the end of a semester of work by staff members at The Red & Black, died Tuesday. It succumbed following complications from a crippling injury inside the President's Box at Sanford Stadium on Nov. 27.

The age of Taco Stand was undetermined.

"Are you serious?" said Lauren Patrick (née Morgan) former Editor in Chief at The Red & Black. "That's awful."

"It is the end of an era," said Ed Morales, Red & Black editorial adviser since 2006. "Taco Stand represented a reward of camaraderie for the staffers after several months of hard work. And it died on December 7 as well, an infamous day if there ever was one."

Taking place in a tucked in spot on Broad Street the day before University of Georgia's Reading Day (HA!) each semester, Taco Stand offered up the requisites for any good journalistic party: cheap beer and tacos, a host of tequila shots and an occasional plate of nachos to boot.

Taco Stand also sold pitchers of margaritas which have since become known as "Sottos" named after a former Red & Black Managing Editor who was known for taking on entire pitchers herself.

"I remember Taco Stand fondly," former Editor in Chief Michael Fitzpatrick said. "Well, I remember parts of it fondly."

No one is quite sure when Taco Stand started, though its placement can be attributed to it being a restaurant where beer is served, so underage staffers could enjoy the company of their of-age comrades without so much touching a drop of alcohol.

The event proved to be a boon for the establishment, as R&B staffers would regale in tales of journalistic achievement well into the night while chasing any non-R&B staffer out of the room to find another place to go.

Sometime during the festivities, usually before the strike of midnight, a speech would be offered to the masses. Sometimes heartfelt, sometimes cheerful and sometimes garbled, the speeches would be remembered. Maybe.

Phillip Kisubika, former Managing Editor, was one of these grand orators, dotting his speeches with a thunderous "Hey, listen up, HEY" and expounding on themes of courage and relationships. Or something like that.

Taco Stand is survived by a host of random connections that will never be spoken of again, an empty pitcher of strawberry margaritas, a row of tables slammed together and a roomful of laughter and memories. 

Perhaps one day it will be buried in a pet cemetery and return to its demented ways. One can only hope.


                                                                                                               - By Ed Morales

Monday, December 6, 2010

Mi Amore: Atlanta

Yesterday I watched the wonderful movie “The Last Time I Saw Paris” for the very first time. For those who haven’t seen this fabulous film from 1954 it stars Elizabeth Taylor and Van Johnson as a young couple, Helen and Charles, who meet in Paris shortly after World War II ends. She’s an heiress and he’s a struggling writer who decide to get married and stay in Paris. The film follows 7 years of their relationship and the way the Parisian lifestyle impacts their relationship.
At one point in the film, Helen says this terrific line that’s stuck with me for the entire day:
I`m sick to death of death. I want to enjoy things, have fun, live every day like it`s the last day. Wouldn`t that be nice, a lifetime full of last days?
To live everyday like it’s the last day is the new attitude I’ve taken to life in Atlanta.
Atlanta and I lead an interesting relationship. When I first moved to Georgia in 1996 as an anguished 11-year old I couldn’t wait to hightail it back to Washington D.C. or North Carolina. Those were the two places in the world that felt like home.
Fourteen years later a lot has changed. I rarely make it back to either D.C. or NC, and if I do it’s usually for a short stint. Atlanta has become my home. It took a few years to really fall in love with this fair city – but now I’m head over heels.
The past month in particular has been the pinnacle of my relationship with Atlanta. A lot of exciting things have happened and they may not have come to fruition if I’d been in any other city in the world.
November and December have been filled with parties, charity events, and fun times with some of the best people in the world. Getting married in October I thought it would be my favorite month of 2010 but November surprised me with all sorts of goodness and December is shaping up well.
Here’s a quick recap of the fabulousness over the past five weeks:
AutoTrader.com STAR Graduation (look for my post later this week on my STAR withdraws)
Volunteered at Project Open Hand, a fantastic organization that provides thousands of meals a day to Atlantans who are unable to feed themselves – check them out at www.projectopenhand.org
First Thanksgiving with my hubby in our new home and we got to tailgate in Athens for UGA vs. Tech. Another reason I love Atlanta: on a good day it’s only an hour’s drive back to my Dream Bubble of Goodness.
Moved into the 10th floor of AutoTrader.com’s beautiful new building and my commute is still less than 10 minutes. I really love where I work and play in Atlanta.
Celebrated the engagement of a coworker at the swanky new restaurant 3 Sheets, and if you’re looking for a great date night or party spot, check it out at www.threesheetsatlanta.com
Volunteered at the Atlanta Christmas House at the fabulous Mansion on Peachtree’s - this project totally got me in the holiday spirit. If you have a chance definitely visit the amazing penthouses on the 41st floor which was decked out for Christmas. All proceeds benefit the Alliance Theatre http://www.atlantachristmashouse.com/
Amazing days and nights out on the town with my family and friends: this weekend we checked out a new restaurant called Goin’ Coastal down in the Highlands http://www.goincoastalseafood.com/. It’s the first sustainable seafood restaurant in Atlanta and the people there were so nice.
Saw the Cirque du Soleil production of Ovo http://www.cirquedusoleil.com/en/shows/ovo/default.aspx. This was by far and away the best theatrical production I’ve ever seen.
Volunteered with the Salvation Army by  sponsoring a 5-year old girl (who only asked for underclothes, a school outfit, shoes and a tea set for Christmas!) and then helped AutoTrader.com load bags of toys for needy kids onto freight trucks. I’ll be working on this project again next week down at their warehouse which holds gifts for more than 10,000 children in the Metro Atlanta area. These kids wouldn’t have a Christmas if it wasn’t for the generosity of strangers. If you’d like to help this amazing cause and give a kid in Atlanta a Christmas check out this link: http://www.uss.salvationarmy.org/uss/www_uss_atlanta.nsf/vw-text-dynamic-arrays/3B877148F900331C85257558005DF298?openDocument&charset=utf-8
Back to “The Last Time I Saw Paris” if we live every, single day like it’s the last day we have we could discover something new and exciting. I also really enjoy discovering ways I can help make a better life for other Atlantans. November was a month of a lot of firsts for me and I can’t wait to discover what December holds.
Wherever you are in the world, dear reader, I hope you and your city can have such a loving relationship.




 

Friday, December 3, 2010

My Top 10 Cutest Kids on Facebook

Please, let me preface this post by stating all kids are cute. Any age, gender or race – you are definitely cute. There was a literature professor  I had at UGA who said “if you are under the age of 10 you haven’t fully developed into a human being. Therefore, you are infallible.”
In our crazy world it’s refreshing to know we can take solace in the innocence and adorableness of children. Even their imperfections are still perfect. Maybe it’s the promise of a brighter future? Whatever it is, if you are under the age of 10, everyone has to adore you. It’s what the universe has called us to do.
 Most of my time spent on Facebook is looking at photos and lately it’s “oohs” and “ahs” over my friends’ cute kids. My compilation of the 10 most precious kids is comprised of my favorite munchkins that I love to see new photos of on Facebook. They are my favorites because:
A)     Their mamas are awesome
B)     They came from respectable wombs, they have to be respectable children
C)      Mamas – I know y’all, love y’all, and need to hang more with you and your cute kids
I also have to note that while I adore children and want my own some day we are planning to wait on having our own family. There’s a lot of writing I gotta go before joining the Baby Mama club. On that note, these are my top 10 favorite Facebook munchkins:
1)     Farrah Rae Williams: the first time I heard of Farrah’s existence was in March 2009. Farrah’s mama, the magnificent Heather McCole Williams called me at work. At first our conversation was casual and then Heather dropped a sentence I will never forget:

      “Dude...I’m pregnant.”  
      
      About 9 months later Farrah entered the world. Our planet has been cuter ever since.

2)     Noah Jones: his mama Sarah is not only my Delta Zeta sister but also the sister of one of our best friends Andrew Hagenbush. Meeting Sarah was so cool because we missed each other at UGA and have since been able to reconnect. It’s great to see pictures of this handsome baby on Facebook because he’s definitely going to be a heartbreaker someday.

3)     Wells Amelia Murray: it’s amazing to see photos of this gorgeous baby because her mother is such a wonderfully talented photographer. Her mama, Callie Murray, photographed our wedding and does an equally amazing job taking photos of her beautiful daughter. You can view Callie’s work at www.achorandeden.com.

4)     Landon McLeroy: the wonderful progeny of a girl I grew up next door to, Lauren McLeroy (ne: Ellers) and the first grandbaby of the Ellers family. Lauren and her husband, Mike, make a really handsome couple, and their fantastic little boy Landon is only proof of such attractiveness. My dear friend, Michael, is one heck of an uncle to Landon. Plus, this baby can sleep through anything! I just saw Landon at a party and he was sleeping on a couch while the party raged on around him. Landon is one cool baby.

5)     Sofia Morales: this little girl can grow up to be the next Pulitzer Prize winning author. She’s the daughter of two amazing journalists, loves to go to concerts, parties with the coolest kids in Athens, an looks like a fairy princess. Talk about a winning combination.

6)     Turner and Sydney Elya: technically they should count for two separate entries; however, as they both belong to one amazing mama (the terrific Jill Elya) I had to include both girls. Turner is in preschool and Sydney just entered the world a few months ago, but looking at the photos of Jill’s girls, you know they’ve already established an amazing bond. They’re both just as pretty as their mama too!

7)     Brady Maloney: his mama is the fabulous Angela Bria Maloney and my goodness her little boy got the best of the flawless features both Angela and her hubby have to offer. Brady looks like a cherub. He could be a child model with the most perfect set of blonde curls and sparking blue eyes. Oh, and this kid’s got personality plus sugar-coated sweetness. Everybody loves Brady.

8)     Reilly Clayton: the daughter of two of the smartest people I’ve ever met. Reilly’s mama is Lauren Clayton (ne: Reilly) and I love that she gave her daughter her maiden name. Lauren and I met when we were working for the Peabody Awards at UGA and we both live in ATL now. Unfortunately we don’t see much of each other (that needs to change) but it’s been a blast watching beautiful Reilly grow up on Facebook. Reilly is very pretty and, as the daughter of two UGA grads with multiple degrees, she’s going to be brilliant.

9)     Nolen Gritz: another Delta Zeta baby belonging to the sensational Sierra and her handsome hubby, Nick. Obviously no one doubted that Sierra and Nick would make beautiful kids. Like me and my hubby, Sierra’s a Bulldog and Nick’s a Yellow Jacket. Hopefully being married in a House Divided makes for even more spectacular kids. Noley is going to have a hard time deciding where to go to school now that UGA has an engineering program but he’s smart enough to pick UGA.

10)  Blakeleigh Ewing: the daughter of one of my first friends I made when I moved to Georgia: Tanner Regan Ewing. Tanner and I have lost touch (she’s a marvelous mama and busy with both her kids) but I love seeing photos of Blake on Facebook because she’s absolutely her mother’s daughter. Tanner and Blake are adorable together.

Now that’s my 10 (technically 11) current favorite kids to follow on Facebook. If there’s a munchkin not on the list please feel free to let me know and I’ll start working on Lauren’s Cutest Kids on Facebook version 2.0.
Have a cute weekend.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Flipboard Furthering Traditional Advertising

As a former journalist and publisher-in-training, I read about 5-10 different websites a day giving me information on trends in the media industry. My must reads are:

http://www.ajc.com/ (for local news, though I think the AJC has a long way to go).

During the week I also check in on the following sites and wheatever else catches my eye.

http://www.wallstreetjournal.com/ (though I do believe Rupert Murdoch is inherently evil)

Moreover, I'm particularly keen on watching trends for how traditional media integrate with new technology to deliver content to their readership and then market that readership to advertisers,

Currently our industry is in a sort of vertigo because newspapers and magazines can't establish a concrete business model to generate revenue from the electronic versions of their products.

Here’s an interesting article today about traditional publishers (Washington Post, Bon Apetit, etc.) buying into a new app for iPad called “Flipboard”.


It takes links on a publication's web site and turns them into a beautiful ad that displays on the iPad. This article caught my attention today with this key phrase:  

Flipboard Pages advertisers will get data back on who is interacting with the ads and what they do with them. "In traditional media, social behaviors are impossible to track. We will look at the amount of impressions, the interactivity and see how often things are shared."

Wouldn’t it be great if we could give our advertisers the same data? A mobile user could click on a link from our publication and suddenly a beautiful full page ad from one of our advertisers appears on their device. We could then tell our advertisers exactly how many people view their ad and their subsequent activity.

Plus then we can charge advertisers not only for the ad but the data that comes from its placement.

I do believe that print media will continue to survive but in a different form. Electronic mass media is the true way of the future and early innovators (particularly in publishing) will be the strongest longterm players.

Please feel free to share your thoughts on the changes in the media industry below or email me at thelaurenpatrick@gmail.com